Buy a calendar when an upcoming family wedding is announced and note birthdays and special family dates on it. It's a very welcoming gesture to the new family member, including them in on the "good stuff". Be sure to write down addresses, phone numbers, and email addresses should the new family want to send greetings.
By Tahloolabelle from Ventura, CA
Go through the calendar and write in each member of the extended family's birthday, and age if you think people would not mind it.